Social phobia is an anxiety related condition that is a marked and persistent fear of being embarrassed in social situations, fear and worry about being judged badly by other people or being criticised and put down. If you have social anxiety disorder you may experience physical symptoms of anxiety as well as being scared of social interactions. This might lead you to avoid social situations altogether.
What are the signs?
Social phobia emerges in the teenage years and excessively shy people tend to develop it. Onset may follow an abruptly stressful event or humiliating experience. Life stressors can fluctuate with the illness. Other signs of Social Phobia are:
- Poor social skills
- Avoiding eye contact
- Observable signs of anxiety (e.g. clammy hands, tremors or shaky voice)
- Hypersensitivity to criticism
- Difficulty in being assertive
- Low self esteem
What are the causes?
The exact causes of social phobia are unknown but there are a number of contributing factors to the disorder including:
- Genetics
- Prior experiences of embarrassment in a social context
- Negative thinking such as "I will make a fool of myself if I go out"
- Lack of social skills
How is social phobia treated?
Treatment for social phobia depends on the individual and the nature of the disorder. Medication can be used to control anxiety symptoms. Gradual exposure to the feared social situation as well as learning new coping skills are some of the therapeutic approaches used.
Sources of information:
Shyness and Social Anxiety Service of Australia
Headspace
Worried About Someone Else?
People with anxiety may be scared or overwhelmed at the thought of getting help. The type and amount of help that families and friends can provide depends on the relationship you have with the person experiencing the disorder.
Helping someone who isn't ready to recognise they need assistance can be very difficult.
You can help someone by:
- spending time talking about their experiences
- indicating that you've noticed a change in their behaviour
- letting them know you're there to listen without being judgemental
- suggesting they see a doctor or health professional
- recommending and/or assisting them to make an appointment with a doctor or health professional
- going with the person to the doctor or health professional
- asking how their appointment went
- assisting them to find information about anxiety
- talking openly about their feelings
- encouraging them to try to get enough sleep, exercise and eat well
- encourage them to use self-help strategies
- taking them out and keeping in touch - as well as encouraging friends and family members to do the same
- encouraging them to face their fears with support from their doctor/psychologist
- contacting a doctor or hospital, if they become a threat to themselves or others
Reference: beyondblue website
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